From Finding My Voice to Advocating for Others

After gaining the courage to speak up for myself, I began to realize something even more powerful: my voice was not just for me—it could be a tool to help others. I had spent so long being afraid to speak my truth, and once I found the strength to do it, I understood that there are so many people still struggling with that same fear. People who want to stand up, who want to be heard, but who are trapped in the same cycle of self-doubt and intimidation that once held me back.

It’s easy to assume that once you’ve overcome something, others will too. But I quickly learned that not everyone has the same resources, support, or experiences that helped me get to where I am now. This realization was a turning point for me—it wasn’t enough to just advocate for myself. I needed to advocate for those who still felt silenced, those who didn’t know how to find the strength to speak or the tools to navigate the complex emotions that come with speaking up.

I started listening more. I paid attention to the struggles of my friends, classmates, coworkers, and even strangers who were afraid to express their needs or opinions. The fear of judgment, rejection, and failure was something I recognized all too well. And I understood that the act of speaking up could be even more daunting when you don’t have the confidence or the platform to do so.

This realization shifted my focus. It became clear that advocacy wasn’t just about me using my voice; it was about amplifying others, creating spaces where people felt supported, and offering encouragement when someone was hesitant to take the first step. I knew I had to do more than just speak; I needed to help others feel safe in speaking, too. Whether it’s through offering a listening ear, empowering someone to take a stand, or challenging injustices, the responsibility I felt toward those still afraid became clear.

The more I reflected on my own journey, the more I recognized that the courage I had gained wasn’t just mine to keep. It was an opportunity to show others that their voices matter, too. I realized that sometimes, being a true advocate means being patient, understanding, and persistent in encouraging others to find their own courage. Every person who speaks up adds to the collective strength of our communities, and that strength is what leads to real change.

I know the road ahead is still difficult for many, but I’m committed to using my voice for those who are still finding theirs. Because if I can help just one person feel heard, empowered, and supported, I know that I’m not just speaking for myself—I’m creating a ripple effect that can inspire others to do the same. The power of advocacy is not just in the act of speaking up; it’s in the act of lifting others up and making space for everyone to be heard.